You will find many guys in your day to day parties who attract several girls at a time. Although there is a possibility that you may be smarter, handsome and richer than those guys but the thing that comes out as a difference when comparing you and them is the skill level they use to attract women towards them.

In imagination, everyone wants to become a pick up artist in order to attract women in parties and bars. There are however a few techniques which a PUA uses to win the heart of the prettiest girl in a party. One thing is for sure that if you do not follow these steps, you can never become a PUA.

Confidence Level

The confidence level of a PUA is always high and with this confidence level, he makes women comfortable with himself. This confidence level is what separates a PUA from all others. The way a PUA walks and the way he talks, both presen his personality. A Pick Up Artist enters a party in a style that people, especially the women, get impressed with. The level of self confidence hides many deficiencies in the personality.

Presentable

You may be rich enough to buy expensive clothes but it’s not a way you can attract women. A UK Pick Up Artist may not use expensive clothes or shoes but, the way he selects the colours and the combinations, it helps him to be more presentable in parties. You must learn from him about how you can put some extra efforts in order to select your clothes and shoes. In this regard, you can get help from a PUA about which colours and style schemes attract the ladies.

Sense of Humour

The most powerful way to attract a woman is to use the sense of humour. A PUA seduces women in a conversation with humorous talks and gets them amused and relaxed. If you follow the same technique used by a Pick Up Artist and once the girl starts feeling comfortable with you, then you can take her away from the gathering and start building a relationship with her.

Behaviour

A PUA always possesses a polite behaviour and sensual voice. The way he speaks, not only does he attract the women but other people are attracted towards him as well and they start focussing and listening to what he says. If you want to be like a Pick Up Artist then, you must carry out such actions which let a women gain reassurance that you are extremely polite and pleasant. Once those foundations are laid, you can the escalate, take her for a walk or even whisk her away.

Relationship

If you want to attract a UK based woman towards you, especially if she is your dream girl whom you plan to live with for the rest of your life then you must work into it with a flirting behaviour. Looking straight into her eyes and then giving her a smile is an ideal starting point for binding her into flirting. This is exactly what a Pick Up Artist does when he sets off to form a relationship.

Trust Level

A Pick Up Artist builds a trust first and then moves ahead. You must first make the woman feel comfortable with you. You may not try to touch her, or be over powering, just use formal and respectful expressions. With the combination of these actions you will be able to gain her trust and then she will be free in your hands.

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Here is a bit of background of how I got into game.

Part 1 Age 9 to 17 years

These a point to this whole story (somewhere lol)….

Most people ask me ( Beckster ) on seminars/bootcamps and 1on1’s were you always this good with women, here’s your answer.

Really I don’t consider myself ginger not anymore, that person isn’t dead but merged with a higher being an evolved Rob Beckster. Some might say altar ego. Cool

It was fine at primary school St John’s I even had a girl friend and a few snogs and the girl next door (well 2 doors away) was my girl friend to, she even came to me with her friend and said can we both go out with you, I was 9 or 10 at the time. She even lock me in her room smoke cigs and said if I didn’t kiss her she would say it was me.

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I was definitely a natural them days, I even was thinking of Beckster routines to pull girls then.
So no issues with my hair colour then.

Secondary came Sheen school, yes you guessed it so did the names and bullying a lot of my friends went to other schools, I always stuck up for myself or ignored people that hassled me but it did dent my confidence by probably 90% which is a hell of a lot I was now an total AFC.
I had one girl friend through this time and not for long and it was at 13.
I fancied a girl at school who I hardly ever spoke to (now I Beckster know her very well but that’s for later maybe).

I went to Richmond college with a new attitude in life and I didn’t know anyone in my class and not many in my college.

I changed my hair style to curtains it was either that or a skin head (wish I’d gone for the skin head now).

One girl knew me called Candy ran over to me and we chatted that never happened in secondary school. We made friends other the holidays and she was friends with my buddy Spanners. She noticed my new hair it gave me a boast of confidence.

In my class Beckster just tried being alpha and funny and ended up the main guy in the class, which wasn’t hard as there were no cool people in it.
I ended up pulling one girl in the class who had a major crush on my, not the best looker but best in the class.

The year ended I was 17 and I had grown in confidence but this next year was filled with all knew people and they were cool, I still had red hair but I had put a few blond highlights in it. Also some guys and girls acted like the alphas and bullies in my secondary school.
I stuck to my guns and held the frame of the leader like the year before, people still laughed at my jokes but also tested me, but as an equal this time. No one tried to bully me and no one mentioned my red hair but my mate I had made there.

He was Filipino called Jay and rolled with some could be dangerous very high alpha people.
Meeting them was very hard specially cos I was the only white boy. Jay and I also rolled with another guy and his posse, again I was the only white kid and these guys were also HARD. In both groups there were the guys that liked me and those that ignored me and a few they didn’t really want me around and tried to shit test me, but never about my hair. No one would hassle me about my hair even a few guys from my secondary school that use to.

Also I grow 7 inches over this period which made me 6 foot yes I was small at school too and skinny and pale.
I now walked with confidence and started buy semi decent clothes.

TB

Beckster

I have a once in a lifetime opportunity for someone to get a moment of fame and free training. A major TV station are creating a documentary on sex and attraction. For a feature of it they are looking for one man who hasn’t had sex yet but is looking to improve his love life. Ideally you should be aged between 18 – 50 and live in the UK. You will get free training from Beckster and I in central London, we will teach you everything on attraction and seduction.

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I tell HB Green Dress we should sit down and take a break so we go to a couple of big sofas where her friend, HB Obstacle and Random Bloke are chatting away. The four of us have a bit of a banter and general chit-chat. After a while, HB Obstacle and Random Bloke decide to go off to the bar leaving me alone with HB Green Dress.

She is sitting on the sofa opposite mine which sucks and as I can’t hear what she is saying or kino escalate her, I beckon her to come over and sit with me. She shit-tests me by semi-playfully refusing to sit with me but I just maintain my dominant frame, pat the empty space next to me and give her a look that says “Hey, stop messing about, you little minx, else you’re not getting any cunnilingus tonight” . After that, she complies and joins me on the sofa next to me.

Once she’s on the sofa next to me, its easy and its just a case of finding out stuff about each other. Turns out she’s originally from South Beach, Miami, is now some high powered management consultant and has a labia piercing. Nice. We are doing medium-strength kinoing and I even experiment with a bit of SteveJabba style meta-communication which definitely has something going for it!

Now, it’s important to realise that there is a big difference between being persistent and being pushy. Being pushy is creepy whereas being persistent is manly. Someone who is pushy doesn’t know when no means no and doesn’t have the character to persevere without reacting personally and in a negative manner. Conversely, someone who is persistent is socially intuitive enough to know when to persevere and when to relent, and has the character to be persistent in a positive and charming fashion.

Here are a couple of examples of different ways that you can handle a situation, one of them is pushy and one is persistent:

Mr. Pushy: Hey, I just saw you from across the road and you’re absolutely adorable. I had to meet you.
Girl: Thanks, but I’m really in a hurry.
Mr. Pushy: So what, you can make time for me.
Girl: No, I can’t. (walks off)

Mr. Persistent: Hey, I just saw you from across the road and you’re absolutely adorable. I had to meet you.
Girl: Thanks, but I’m really in a hurry.
Mr. Persistent: I know you’re in a hurry but I’m in a hurry to meet you. Before you run along tell me something about yourself, what do you do for a living?
Girl: I work in fashion.

The difference between the two examples is that Mr. Persistent doesn’t take it personally when he meets a little resistance to the flow of the interaction. Instead, he perseveres in a friendly manner. Start bringing this kind of persistence to your interactions and you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the results.

At the start of the evening, she asks how my work is and what it is that I do exactly. I want to tell her but am aware of needing to maintain the dominant frame so I reframe it by telling her we are not spending the whole evening talking about work – in fact we are going to spend the whole night talking rubbish instead! However I will allow 5 minutes for work chat and THAT IS IT!

I then proceed to tell her about something cool and important I did at work that week (1st canned DHV story – lol!) then ask her exactly what it is she does. She explains in some technical language that I don’t understand so I then playfully ask her to explain it again – this time in English –lol! This sets me up as a challenge and the arbitrator of whether what she does is cool or not. HB Green Dress jumps through the compliance hoop and is qualifying herself to me in no time. Nice!

Conclusion
Looking at the above scenarios, it becomes clear what the differences are between a natural and a PUA. A Natural uses his core identity to attract whereas a PUA uses tactics and tricks or a set of behaviours in order to get the same results. The one thing we need to be aware of is that the minute we become conscious of our behaviours, we are no longer being ourselves. Some would argue that these behaviours will eventually become instinctive, but this is where the problems lie. They are simply that, instinctive behaviours and not coming from a frame of genuine honesty and comfort.

So to conclude… Like attracts like… I challenge everyone to go out and simply drop the Games we’re all playing and to simply be your selves. You will be surprised at the results you start getting. People say to use Direct, Indirect, social proof etc. However looking at this in perspective, there is no method. The process I present to you here is simply that, a process. Therefore no one person’s end journey will be the same as we are all unique individuals. So go out and start talking to women, and the next time you’re all thinking about whether to open Direct or Indirect. Instead, look at it in the frame of honesty. So you see a girl wearing a nice dress? Go and tell her. You’re looking for directions? Go and tell her. You’re finding it hard to think of anything to say? Go and tell her.

Be proud of the men you already are!

I found this wicked video by Jordan from PUA Method. Talks about confidence and street approaching. Getting instant dates and numbers from some very good looking women is impressive enough. Jordan isn’t the best looking guy in the world though that makes this very inspirational.

Jordan has been teaching pick up for four years now and focuses primarily on direct game. He was bullied very badly at school and so he’s gradually developed himself into the man he is today.

Love it.

A strong, confident alpha male goes for what he wants and if he doesn’t get it straight away he doesn’t just give up at the first sign of difficulty. Instead, he keeps going, he ploughs through the difficulties until he gets what he wants. He doesn’t think about anything except the end goal. And with that in mind, obstacles cannot stop him; stumbling blocks are converted into stepping stones en-route to his destination.

This is something a lot of guys struggle with when it comes to meeting and attracting women. It’s not that the girl rejects them, but rather that they reject themselves. At the very first sign of any disinterest they give up, thinking that all is lost. Guys make two common mistakes that prevent them from being persistent.

First, they think that every time a man chats up a woman it’s going to be as smooth as a scene in a James Bond film. Consequently, when an interaction gets a little bit difficult most guys give up. The truth of the matter is that most interactions are a little bit messy, even the biggest ladies men around don’t have the perfect response for every social situation, nor do they need to. The interaction doesn’t have to be perfect in any way for you to succeed, if it’s good enough it’s good enough.